30 Carrie Bradshaw-Approved Sex and the City Themed Party Ideas
Lauren Miolene
Editor
If there’s one thing about Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte, and Miranda, it’s that they know how to party. Whether they were attending a trendy club opening downtown or a friend's baby shower in Connecticut, these ladies always do it in style—now it’s your turn!
It’s time to grab your cosmos, put on your highest stilettos, and channel your inner fashionista with these Sex and the City themed party ideas that are perfect to celebrate an upcoming birthday, bachelorette, or themed dinner party.
1. Bartender
Book a bartender to shake up delicious drinks and cocktails throughout your Sex and the City party theme. Work with these event professionals to create a special menu that features drinks like Big’s Old Fashioned, Aiden's beer, or Big Apple Spritzes.
2. Sex and the City Themed Party Outfits
To properly capture the iconic show, you’ll need bold character inspired Sex and the City party outfits. Recreate Carrie’s look in the opening theme, Charlotte’s chic style, Miranda’s stylish suits, or Samantha’s trendy tops and jewelry. Bonus points if you wear anything from the 90s!
3. Carrie's Cosmopolitans
Carrie’s classic cocktail is mandatory for a Sex and the City party theme! To whip up this chic drink you’ll need vodka, cranberry juice, triple sec, and fresh lime juice. Combine into a cocktail shaker with ice and serve in a chilled martini glass for the perfect pink cocktail.
4. Post-It Note Invitations
Who can forget the infamous Post-it note Berger left for Carrie? Don’t worry, there are no break ups happening here. Invite friends to your Sex and the City themed party on these little yellow squares that make a unique detail to incorporate.
5. Psychic
You know what they say, “In New York, you’re always looking for a job, a boyfriend, or an apartment.” See what your future and your Sex and the City theme party have in store by booking a psychic to get a glimpse, just like Charlotte did in season one. You can also book fortune tellers or a tarot card reader that will promise fabulous party entertainment.
6. Channel the New York Charm
The classic series took place in Manhattan, so obviously you’ll need to channel the New York City charm. Decorate your Sex and the City theme party with street signs, a skyline backdrop, and twinkling lights to replicate the city that never sleeps.
7. Samantha's Sex on the Beach
Honor Samantha with this classic cocktail that’s made for a party girl. Shake up vodka, peach schnapps, cranberry juice, and orange juice with ice. Serve in a chilled glass topped with a maraschino cherry for a bold drink that will get the Samantha Jones stamp of approval.
8. Mr. Big's Cigars
One thing about Mr. Big was that he loved a good cigar. Incorporate this detail into your Sex and the City party theme by booking a cigar roller on The Bash to create fresh smokes for guests. People can enjoy them at your party or take them home for the perfect Sex and the City party favor.
9. New York Style Pizza
You can’t have a Sex and the City themed party without New York style pizza. Whether this is for a cozy dinner party or fuel in between sessions on the dance floor, this crowd favorite fits the party theme perfectly. Serve a variety of options like pepperoni, veggie, or gluten free crust so there’s something for everyone to enjoy. Plus, a slice of cheesy pizza will also pair perfectly with your Cosmo.
10. Carrie's Closet Photo Booth
Unleash your inner fashionista by posing just like Carrie. Have fun and stylish props like feather boas, sunglasses, and fabulous hats for the ultimate Sex and the City photoshoot.
11. Charlotte's Martini
You’ll need a classy cocktail inspired by Charlotte York for this Sex and the City theme party. Serve a variety of martinis including dirty, espresso, appletinis, or classic with a twist for a drink Charlotte and your guests will love.
12. Big Macs and French Fries
McDonald’s makes an appearance multiple times throughout the series. From Carrie bringing Big Macs and French fries to Big’s apartment to her and Aleksandr Petrovsky getting Supersized meals instead of going to the ballet, this fast food makes the perfect party food.
13. Karaoke
For a fun Sex and the City themed bachelorette party activity, sing your heart out to 90s and early 2000s classics as heard in the show like “I am Woman,” “You’ve Got the Love,” and “New York State of Mind.” Book a karaoke DJ to bring the equipment and play the tracks so you and your friends can enjoy singing along.
14. Quote Trivia
There were endless iconic quotes that people still use to this day. From “I like my money right where I can see it…hanging in my closet” to "If I worried about what every b*tch in New York was saying about me, I’d never leave the house" take turns going around and quizzing your friends on who said what.
15. Miranda's Manhattan
This strong drink is perfect to represent Miranda. Combine whiskey, vermouth, and bitters, shake with ice, and serve into a coupe glass garnished with a cherry. This cocktail captures Miranda perfectly for your Sex and the City party theme.
16. New York City Food Carts
It wouldn’t be a Sex and the City themed party without classic food carts to match the aesthetic. From soft pretzels and hot dogs, to pizza and ice cream, browse and book local food trucks on The Bash to perfectly replicate the Sex and the City theme.
17. Casino Games
Take inspiration from the girls’ trip to Atlantic City by booking casino games for a fun party activity. Get dressed up, embrace the glitz and glam, and get ready to play the classics like poker, Black Jack, and roulette.
18. Brunch Bites
The ladies were always meeting up at the trendiest brunch spots on the weekends, so why not serve up brunch at your Sex and the City themed party? Put together a bagel spread with all of the classic toppings like cream cheese lox, and fresh tomato, or pancakes and fruit parfaits.
19. Coffee Cart
Whether the ladies were catching up at a cozy cafe or Carrie was working in her neighborhood Starbucks, coffee is a quintessential part of Sex and the City and New York. Find local coffee carts on The Bash that can serve delicious cappuccinos, lattes, and espresso shots during the Sex and the City party theme.
20. Flirtinis
To recreate Flirtinis as seen in the show during their fabulous rooftop party, you’ll need vodka, pineapple juice, and champagne—that’s it! Flirtinis are a delicious cocktail and easy to make in batches so you can keep the drinks flowing all night long at this Sex and the City theme party.
21. Jazz Band
For a classy night out on the town, the ladies loved going to jazz clubs and listening to live music. Feel inspired by all of the talent in Manhattan by booking a jazz band for your Sex and the City theme party.
22. Magnolia Bakery Inspired Cupcakes
You’ll definitely want to serve Magnolia Bakery inspired cupcakes at this Sex and the City themed birthday party. Rather than having a big birthday cake, serve cupcakes for an easier mess free option.
23. Party DJ
What’s more New York City inspired than going out dancing with your girlfriends? Channel the ultimate party girl vibes by booking a DJ to play hits heard in the show and the movies for the Sex and the City themed bachelorette party.
24. Fabulous Makeup Artists and Hair Stylists
If this is a Sex and the City themed bachelorette party, treat the girls to blowouts and makeovers to complete their Sex and the City party outfits before a night out on the town. Browse local hair stylists and makeup artists that will transform guests into the core four.
25. Candy Cigarettes
Carrie’s signature style included fur coats, Manolo Blahniks, and was usually finished with a cigarette in hand. Since smoking isn’t as popular as it was in the 90s, incorporate this nostalgic detail by serving candy cigarettes at your Sex and the City theme party or giving them out as party favors.
26. Balloon Decor
Fill your space with plenty of Sex and the City inspired decor like newspaper print, sparkles, and balloons. Use a pink, black, and white color scheme, and work with a professional balloon decorator to add personal details to your Sex and the City themed birthday party. They can create balloon arches, garland, or other pieces of art to accent your party venue.
27. Chinese Food Takeout
Keep the Sex and the City themed party food simple by ordering takeout from your favorite chinese food restaurant. Get the classics like lo mein, sweet and sour chicken, or Miranda’s go to order—chicken with broccoli in brown sauce, brown rice and cold noodles. You can even order Chinese food takeout containers and chopsticks on Amazon so everyone can take home their leftovers.
28. Disco Balls
Disco balls add a touch of glitz and glam, instantly transforming your space into a chic, Manhattan-worthy affair. Make a statement and hang them above the dance floor to reflect light like a dazzling pair of Manolos, or scatter mini ones across tables for a fabulous touch of shimmer as a Sex and the City themed party decoration.
29. Sushi
Who could forget Samantha’s iconic Valentine’s Day present for Smith Jerrod? Serve sushi from your favorite restaurant at this Sex and the City theme party, or for a fun activity, you and your friends can attempt to make your own.
30. Scrunchies
A scrunchie!? According to Carrie, no one wears them anymore, but Jack Berger would think otherwise. For a Sex and the City themed party favor, hand out scrunchies for this show inspired detail so guests can throw up their hair while on the dance floor.
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